I have given birth three times in the past four years, each time in a different hospital with a very different experience. A year or so after my first child was born a friend sent me an NPR feature on traumatic child birth in the US, and I wasn’t surprised to see the hospital where I had my first featured in it. I discovered that those on Medicaid (like I was), but most especially black and brown women had received lackluster to terrible care in that hospital. Still trying to understand why I had been treated the way I was there, I started to look a little deeper into the issues pregnant women face in the US today.
It’s pretty hard to escape the news nowadays, even our youngest ones are often exposed to it in some form or other, as much as we try to shield them from it. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing: I personally feel that my parents helped grow my empathy through my exposure to the world and in how they explained events to me. But it’s important to talk to kids about events in a way that they not only understand it, but also provides them with the ability to process it correctly. Amongst the uptick of mass shootings and now compulsory lockdown training in all schools, it’s hard for parents to find the middle ground between shielding kids from violence and risking traumatizing them. One of my children has already been diagnosed with anxiety at an early age, and these type of conversations are very tough for us. This is why I have put together some guidelines on how to address traumatic events like mass shootings with our kids.
Idaho has finally passed a Bill in their state House to protect breastfeeding mothers. Prior to the unanimous vote Idaho was the ONLY state without legislation to protect moms who chose to breastfeeding publicly.
A year ago I was about 20 weeks pregnant with my third child and painting t-shirts for the initial Women’s March that took place on January 21st. I painted t-shirts for my sister, for my friends, for my two little girls, and for myself, trying to infuse as much love and power into each brush stroke and each word that I painted. We would be marching together, strong, raising our voices as one. We marched over here in Sacramento with thousands and thousands of women, men, and children, carrying banners for truth, equality, love, and justice. It kicked off what I now see as a year of hope, a year of despair, a year of strength, and a year of rebuilding. 2017 was a transition year, where the population began to question everything again. 2017 was a year of sinking deep to climb up higher, a year of profound reflection.
Sexual harassment in the worplace has exploded in Hollywood. Over a couple of months both women and men came out about being sexually harassed by their bosses and colleagues. Instead of just outcry over 300 popular actors, producers, directors, entertainment executives and more took action into their own hands to stop what has become a systemic norm in their industry. BUT realizing it's happening everywhere.
It’s all over the news: Weinstein, Spacey, the president, the #metoo campaign, and people speaking up and speaking out about sexual harassment, assault, and violence. Now is the time to not only talk about what continues to be normalized behavior in our society but also to talk about how we can make REAL change. As parents we talk about looking for signs of abuse, and preventing abuse, but how can we actually help our children see and know the signs of danger? How can we also help our children to NOT become perpetrators of assault and harassment?
Bad Moms 2 is hitting theaters Wednesday, November 1st and we can’t wait to see what our three favorite bad moms have pulled off as they take on the holiday season. We also can’t help but think why the characters Mila Kunis, Kristen Bell and Kathryn Hahn play are every mom’s dream BFFs! Here are 5 reasons why you will not disagree:
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Over 7000+ nursing mothers room locations (lactation rooms to breastfeed and breastpump) in the United States, US Territories, Canada, The UK, Singapore, Australia, and more. Moms Pump Here Nursing Room Locator App (also serving airport lactation rooms) was created by Moms For Moms. Pregnant moms-to-be, and current moms travel and go out with infants and toddlers. They need to know all quiet and private nursing rooms, lactation lounges, nursing pods, and breastfeeding friendly places to breastfeed their baby or express breast milk.
Now they have the nursing room locator app (Also #1 Airport Nursing Rooms Locator) to find a nice vetted spot to nurse. Lactation rooms also help moms relieve oversupply of breast milk which can cause mastitis while breastfeeding. That means they no longer have to use unsanitary public bathrooms. Parenting means doing what's best for your baby, and moms don't want to feed a delicate baby in a restroom since you wouldn't eat your own food there.